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Many people, despite their achievements and successes, don’t feel successful. They have an ideal vision in mind, and they constantly compare where they are currently against that ideal, leaving them feeling perpetually unhappy. In The Gap And The Gain, Dr. Benjamin Hardy shares entrepreneurial expert Dan Sullivan’s simple mindset shift to help you recognize and appreciate your progress in order to stay positive, happy, and motivated.
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As he did in WHO NOT HOW, Dr. Benjamin Hardy shares one of Dan Sullivan’s simple yet profound teachings that until now has been known only to his Strategic Coach clients: unsuccessful people focus on “The Gap,” but successful people focus on “The Gain.”
Most people, especially highly ambitious people, are unhappy because of what they measure themselves against. We all have an ideal, which is like a moving target always out of reach. When we measure ourselves against our ideal, we’re in “The Gap.” However, when we measure ourselves against our previous selves—the person we were when we set our goals and ideals—we will be in “The Gain.” In “The Gain” we can more clearly see the progress we’ve made, and therefore will experience the happiness, confidence, and satisfaction that come from achieving—positive, powerful emotions that will motivate us to pursue new goals and ultimately become increasingly successful.
About the authors
Dr. Benjamin Hardy
Dr. Benjamin Hardy is an organizational psychologist and author of Willpower Doesn’t Work and Personality Isn’t Permanent. Together, he and Dan co-authored Who Not How and The Gap And The Gain. His blogs have been read by more than 100 million people and are featured in the Harvard Business Review, The New York Times, Forbes, Fortune, CNBC, and others. For several years, he was the #1 most-read writer on Medium.com. He and his wife, Lauren, are the parents of six kids. They live in Orlando, Florida.
Praise for The Gap And The Gain
“When I first learned about ‘The Gap’ from Dan years ago, I realized that not only was I living in ‘The Gap’ but I had pulled my whole team into it with me! Being in ‘The Gain’ is inspiring and powerful. It helps me appreciate where I’m at and create the growth I truly want.”
New York Times best-selling author and Inc 5000 founder
“The Gap And The Gain is my favorite book of the year—and the most impactful in my personal life. The ideas are so powerful and practical, I’ve made this book required reading in my Stanford courses.”
BJ Fogg, PhD
Founder of the Stanford Behavior Design Lab and New York Times best-selling author of Tiny Habits
“If you’re an overachiever, the principle in this book can save you. You will be able to break through to the next level of contribution and be happier in the process. A double whammy.”
New York Times best-selling author and host of the What’s Essential podcast
“Get this book and read it carefully—it’s worth it! The Gap And The Gain has more practical wisdom per square inch than anything I’ve read this year.”
Gay Hendricks, PhD
Author of The Big Leap and The Genius Zone